Is the Math, Mathing?

"Teenagers represent the family, are people complimenting you; its likely? 

Proverbs 22:6

Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.

A teenager’s mental and spiritual growth highlights the growth needed in the immediate family, in the home, between siblings, and parents.

There comes a time when as a parent your personal goals no longer become the only primary goal in your mind and life. 

Before when your children are still in adolescent stages these thoughts are not as intense but when your children reach the teenage stage their desires begin to become precedent and a focus in the parents life to help them steer in the right direction towards their success as it becomes the new journey.

Teenagers have a significant way of helping parents reevaluate their parent strategy and ask the questions.

Are the methods working?

Is there more that can be done to help mentaly stimulate the teenager to be there best?

Are the strategies too much and or relevant ?

The secrecy to parenting teenagers you will only see the fruits of what you have placed in them through the years through teaching, decisions made for them, things you have encouraged them thorugh the decisions and interest they have to make on their own. 

Hoping your fruits are plenty and joyful of your teenager/s.

If not you still can make some changes but you have to be sincere and you have to enter their teenage world the positive things they like and build from within that joyful place with them.

Happy parenting, 

Parents

Forever Friends

"A life long friends that is there with you at all times, Yes at all times"

Milestones that change your generations

Mark 10:9

What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.

Ask God if this is the person you should marry in spite of the good chemistry.

Marriage is a lifelong journey, when your upset, happy, sad through all emotions you have to stay in your marriage with faith, energy and forgiveness through your individual emotional changes. There is no quit button for a honorable Christian marriage. When 1 person quits half of the relationship dies silently and slowly but with God help it will take trusting each other again and creating a newer relationship from healed wounds. 

Love, Forgiveness, and faith will be the couple’s anchor.

Ephesians 5:22-33

Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— for we are members of his body. “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

Deuteronomy 24:5

When a man is newly married, he shall not go out with the army or be liable for any other public duty.

He shall be free at home one year to be happy with his wife whom he has taken.

*Problem marriages are marriages where the two persons married for everything except love and should have never married. The marriage did not grow on a solid foundation of love, faith, nor forgiveness.

Remember just like in parenting marriage will test all of your emotions but it should not crush your good character. Through appropriate compromise marriage should help highlight areas of improvement in you and each other always. 

Marriage is a lifelong journey where the two must grow together through the ebbs and flows of life.

Take great care of each other with many hugs and kisses.

Stability

" A man leads, makes great decions, and speaks when necessary"

1 Corinthians 10:31

Whether, then, you eat or drink or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.

Learn to forgive yourself and uphold yourself to God standards and quality and not the world nor your family because your family may have the wrong perception of a man .

Depending on his confidence will determine if he will listens to the world stereotypes or if he is able to look at himself and see the abilities, access, and his future possibilities of what he knows he can obtain.

How to look up to God when the male role models around you are not likely showing good attributes.

Proverbs 13:20 He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.

1 Peter 2:12 Continue to live such upright lives among the gentiles that, when they slander you as

practicers of evil, they may see your good actions and glorify God when he visits them.

Males are very good in separating facts; in this aspect a man will need to isolate the negative behaviors and interactions .

If living among other male relatives where toxicity is not possible to isolate a male knows he will need to decide and make arrangements to leave that environment to help him build a future life and home for himself.

Every man needs a successful strategy and implement steps to success that does not always include a woman. A man knows when he can live without a woman in a committed relationship he is also a man that is strong and stable enough mentally and phyiscally to have a committed relationship with the right woman for him.

Proverbs 21:5

The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance, but everyone who is hasty comes only to poverty.

This idea, decision and strategy does not have an age predate. A male can make this decision as a young child. Will the goal change possibly, but the idea is to begin to create the mindset and exercising short-term and long-term goals. To learn to also be able to pursue non sexualized goals.

Take great care

The Dynamic Student

"A person that can become everything God has granted in their life"

2 Timothy 1:7

For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.

Romans 15: 4

For everything that was written in the past was written to teach us, so that through the endurance

taught in the Scriptures and the encouragement they provide we might have hope.

Sacrificing time with God instead of the hobby’s, and want to’s.

A Chrisitan student or  Christian students should always approach every learning blessing and obstacle with the best approach that is honorable to God. Even when you are tired, do not understand, feel targeted you have the strength to become detailed oriented and strategize to resolve the issue with God help. There should be an enlightenment that comes to you as a result of patience, observing, studying and applying old, current and new knowledge as your becoming a dilligent student.

James 4:8

Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded.

1 Chronicles 16:11

Seek the Lord and his strength; seek his presence continually!

Luke 1:37

For nothing will be impossible with God.”

Organizing and mapping a learning strategy is for everyone.

1 Corinthians 14:40

But all things should be done decently and in order.

Habakkuk 2:2

And the Lord answered me: “Write the vision; make it plain on tablets, so he may run who reads it.

Life will bring you many obstacles at various times, use your tools whether technology tools to help organize your life with excel spreadsheets, notepads on /off computer and various Windows or Mac tools that will help you stay focus.

Whether Windows or iOS/Mac operating system , use your Google Calendars etc, get a notebook and write it down. The key is not to waste time on things you need not to, keep your strategies in a safe place and access them often to stay up to date on your targets per week and or daily. Have an off day where you literally write off a day or unavailable day between the hours; to recuperate and relieve yourself from your daily schedule.

Recreating yourself in school and ministry is inevitable.

Your internal growth will reflect your external apperance. 

Ensure that it reflects God.

Ephesians 4:22-24

To put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful

desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self, created after the

likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.

A young student or professional student in school or ministry will reach a place of creativity after learning monumental information. It is not by coincidence but as a child of God it is purposeful for you to experience new knowledge that is deem useful in your learning that will encourage you to experience new moments with God.

Take great care

Be Mindful.

Christian, you can’t uphold others to Christian beliefs.

You cant have an expectation of others simply because they sound like you.

Be mindful of when hearing the name God, we know as Christian this is the name of our source just as a Islam refers to their source as Alah. Around the world high and low everyone knows when you say God it refers to a Chrisitan and who we refer to as our hierarchy.

(others are referring to Gods, and that’s okay but as a Christian know the difference without being arrogant).

Romans 12:2

Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.

2 Corinthians10:3

For though we live in the world, we do not wage war as the world does.

John 8:12

When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will

never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.”

With a internet world that will only continue to advance and get better and chaotic, and entertaining Christian you must have the word of God vibrant inside of you to defeat the everyday temptations. The nuances, trends and the things that look interesting. A Christian mind is aware of where that temptation will lead you to a pitfall eventually. The new ways of money and obtaining it are many and temptious , the only way out and to be the leader of your mind is to keep the word of God within you.

What does that mean?

It means study the word of God and apply it to relevant every day moments in your life, begin to participate in your relationship with God by talking to God without interuptions. This is not a friend-on-friend journey this way of life is between you and God for you to learn how to live, how to survive when needed, how to grow spirtually and how to maintain a core peace within you at all times.

Take great care

The Essence of a Flower

"A flower is beautiful, yeilding to nutirents from God, and made strong to stand in any weather"

Who are you in the particular stages in your life ?

At every new level in a female life, she will want to upgrade herself to match her internal environment, lifestyle, family, and career. A female is naturally creative. For her to be able to successfully implement this person at every milestone of her life she will naturally recreate herself to display her growth that ultimately helps her reach her maximum confidence within herself.

1 Peter 3:3-4

Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the

clothing you wear— but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable

beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious.

But God desires the fancy things you wear does not outshine the kindness of your heart, the humility in your soul, and the sweetness of your essence.

Get to know the new things you like in life and the things that are no longer useful?

This is two areas in a woman life she recognizes as no longer having a purpose or is delightfully useful in her life that reflects the milestone she currently lives.

Psalm 51:10

Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.

In all of her essence as a Christian woman everything she looks like on the outside should never come before God nor confuse the world if she is of God or the devil. 

Take great care